最近●生活

生活最近都过得好压力,大学都开学了..

我还在想些什么不开心的 ? 

自己真的有够笨.

在大学的生活里让我终于感受到什么是充实,一直都好像有些充实的生活，现在我已得到自己想要的 :)

当然都没把老朋友都给忘了 :) 

您们依然还是我想看到的,想一起出去疯颠的 <3

虽然大学功课会比中学来的更压力,但是为了未来 ●我屏了●

一直都没后悔自己所做出的选择，我很满意我的生活..

该忘的就给忘了，重新新生活 <3

__友谊__

 - 友谊不用碰杯，友谊无需礼物，友谊只不过是我们不会忘记。

 - 友谊——是使青春丰富多彩的，清纯的生命的旋律，是无比美丽的青春赞歌。

 - 友谊是一种相互吸引的感情，因此它是可遇而不可求的。

 - 人之间的友谊，并非由于说不尽的好处，倒是说不出的要好。

 - 没有彼此的敬重，友谊是不可能有的。 - 若不能原谅彼此的小缺点便不能让友谊长存。 

 - 友谊是宁神药，是兴奋剂；友谊是大海中的灯塔，沙漠里的绿洲

 - 最牢固的友谊是共患难中结成的，正如生铁只有在烈火中才能锤炼成锅一样。

 - 幸福的时候需要忠诚的友谊，患难的时刻尤其需要。

 - 如果说，友谊能够调剂人的感情的话，那么友谊的又一种作用则是能增进人的智慧。 

 - 真挚的友谊犹如健康，不到失却时，无法体味其珍贵。

 - 在友谊里，不用言语，一切的思想，一切的愿望，一切的希冀，都在无声的欢乐中发生而共享了。

 - 既不请求别人也不答应别人去做卑鄙的事情，为友谊的一项原则。

 - 长期在一起同甘共苦共患难，才能有莫逆之交。

 - 友谊的最大努力并不是向一个朋友展示我们的缺陷，而是使他看到自己的缺陷。

 - 虚伪的友谊有如你的影子；当你处在阳光下时，它会紧紧地跟着你，但你一旦走到阴暗处时，它立刻就       会离开你。

 - 世间最美好的东西，莫过于有几个头脑和心地都很正直、严正的朋友。 

 - 你不要把那人当作朋友，假如他在你幸运时表示好感。只有那样的人才算朋友，假如他能解救你的危难。

 - 要想吸引朋友，须有种种品性。自私、小器、嫉忌，不喜欢成人之美，不乐闻人之誉的人，不能获得朋友。

 - 应当在朋友正是困难的时候给予帮助，不可在事情已经无望之后再说闲话。

 - 用狡计去害友人的人，自己将陷于危险埋伏之中。 

想做永久夫妻，就要认真学 ..

一位朋友，觉着老婆越来越懒惰自私，脾气也一天比一天暴躁。因此，他们天天吵架，吵到最后，朋友有了外遇，结果很简单，停妻再娶。他的前妻也很快就嫁了。因为没有孩子，他们各自进入新的婚姻都比较顺利和适应。­这朋友在婚后，先前的第三者变成了后妻，温情也开始消失殆尽。他的家里，又开始跟以前一样了，动不动就吵声不断，后妻连家务也不做，还得朋友里里外外收拾。朋友觉得自己命不够好，找的老婆一个不如一个，为此天天唉声叹气。直到有一天，偶然机会，在一个饭局上碰到前妻的现任丈夫。两个男人原本无话，客套寒暄后，几杯酒下肚，他终于忍不住，询问人家的婚姻状况。那男人相貌普通，说话却掷地有声：她是个很好的女人，特别温柔体贴，家务全包，还那么疼我，对我的亲戚朋友也是该豪爽就豪爽，该关心就关心，这样的女人，真是不多了。
朋友说，当时就觉得脑袋“嗡”地一下，心说，她有那么好？自己怎么就没发觉呢？这些话，是他要面子糊弄我吧？­不久之后，巧的很，朋友在超市买东西，远远看见前妻与她的现任丈夫。朋友躲在一边观察良久，终于确认，他们很幸福。那种幸福，刻在前妻的如花笑颜里，藏在她身边那个男人的温情拥抱里。
看来老婆是天使还是巫婆，全靠男人来塑造。女人嫁给好男人，嫁的那刻，是下了决心跟男人好好过日子的。她的选择会让她有得到也有失落，她可能因此而永远错过了更好更爱她的人，而如果她做出这样的奉献后男人还不珍惜她，把她当老妈子使唤，那女人就真变成老妈子了。
所以，要想让老婆永远是天使，就要先把她当天使来对待，即使她的长相和脾气不像天使，但你真把她当了天使，她就会给自己天使的性情，慢慢变成天使。
没有天生的巫婆，只有后天的黄脸婆。一个对女人不尊重的男人，一个不懂的女人的男人，他看不见天使，只能碰上巫婆。
虽然在婚姻中，忍耐是一种美德，但如果有爱，就不存在忍耐，而只有宽容。当你看着自己的女人横竖不顺眼时，她便也不在乎做巫婆了。所以，如果想要一个天使女人，就先把她当天使供在心里吧。因为，这世界上每一个被叫做“老婆”的女人，都有成为天使的潜质。你会发现，原来，你态度的转变，可以造就出一个真正的天使。
这是创造，也是维护，比忍耐更容易做到。
其实老婆是什么？从前的路人……以前的朋友……现在的伴侣……生活的搭档……感情的知音……一辈子的总结。女人是一架钢琴，遇到一位名家来弹，奏出来的是一支名曲；如果一个普通人来弹，也许会奏一条流行曲；要是碰上了不会弹的人，恐怕就不成歌了。我认为婚姻的比喻大致如此。做一个好女人真的好难，所谓好女人不单单是做个好母亲！还应该是个好妻子！好儿媳！正所谓一人难称百人心，真是做到面面俱到……好难！冥冥中一切自有安排，一切随他去吧，珍惜拥有的，把握好今天，就够了！一个人的力量其实很有限，生活中有很多东西我们都不能改变，那就尝着改变一下自己吧！而生活就像一面镜子，你笑了她也就笑了。有些人因前磨历了很多灾难，共渡了艰苦时光，所以在今生的茫茫人海随便一指就能认出她的唯一；而有些人因前世的互责排斥恩怨纠缠，所以今生必须接受寻觅的苦难，承受风雨的洗礼才能再度携手。
两个有情人实不容易。有些必须面对流言蜚语，有些必须面对众叛亲离，有些必须面对世俗压力，有些必须面对生死抉择……但不管怎么样两个人的世界就是天堂，两个人的生活就是愿望。
太多的美好镜头其实是两个人走到一起的理由。难道面对生活的琐事和不愉快的口角就能割舍曾经的爱恋和抛弃信誓旦旦的诺言？
两个人真想相约黄昏看人生夕阳。请切记：爱是责任，情是包容!

__My Dream__

1.      人人都有梦想，有的想成为杨立伟一样的航天员，登上太空，自由自在地遨游，探索太空的奥秘；有的想当无所不能的工程师，设计建造出高科技的桥梁和摩天大厦；有的想当技术精湛的医生，攻克医学上的疑难杂症，让更多的人远离疾病的痛苦；还有的想当大红大紫的歌星，在世界各地展开歌喉，为大家唱出一首首优美的歌曲……我有一个光辉的梦想，那就是当一名象体育健儿刘翔一样的奥运冠军。
       当我随着国家队，穿着印有五星红旗标志的运动服，夹在亚、非、拉、美短跑运动员中间，雄纠纠、气昂昂地跨上2012年的奥运赛场，满载着全国人民的殷切期望，当我像离弦的箭直奔终点，黄、白、棕、黑的世界奥运健儿都被我远远地甩在了身后。汗流满面的我更加充满了自信，握紧拳头暗暗给自己加油：“一定要超过他们！我一定能行！中国人一定能赢！”当庄严的五星红旗高高地飘在我的头顶，当雄壮的中华人民共和国国歌为我奏起，当光彩夺目的金牌被挂在我的脖子上，当清脆的橄榄枝编织的花环戴在我的头顶，望着美国选手和日本选手向我投来羡慕的目光，热泪盈满了我的双眼。我双手举着五星红旗围着赛场跑了一圈又一圈。全场为我欢呼，中国人民为我欢呼，全世界的华人为我欢呼！我赢了，中国人赢了！我终于为中国赢得了荣誉，在中国的金牌榜上又添了一块金牌！我高兴地蹦着跳着，队友们把我举起来在天空中抛着，抛着……
       当奥运冠军的感觉真棒！我简直沉浸在我辉煌的梦想里了。但是，我知道这仅仅是一个梦想，要想实现这个梦想，必须付出巨大的努力，我今后一定要加强锻炼，积极参加学校组织的运动会、越野赛等一系列体育活动，好好学习，用知识武装自己的头脑，吃常人吃不了的苦，流常人流不了的汗，在意志、毅力上超过他人。从我做起，从现在做起，我想在不久的将来的奥运会上，我一定能够拿到一枚真正的金牌，实现我光辉而灿烂的梦想！
       相信我吧，庄严的五星红旗一定会为我升起，雄壮的中华人民共和国国歌一定会为我奏响的！

__A day to Remmember__

Never does a mother forget, that miracle of birth, It stays within her memory, With the last and with her first.

Nine long months of waiting, 
For that bundle of joy to arrive, 
Then wondering how to raise it, 
While setting some of her life aside.

Yet with Gods' grace and wisdom, 
That was instilled in her from the start, 
She gives this little blessing of joy, 
All her loving trust and heart.

Time passes quickly, 
All childish things let go.
To become what you have taught them, 
And everything you know.

A day to take upon themselves, 
A spouse to start anew, 
Starting the process over again, 
Now the rest my child is up to you! 

__ Bersih 2.0 __2011

It has been barely 24 hours in the aftermath of the Bersih 2.0 rally, but countless opinions have already hit the public sphere - be it in the media, cyberspace or in neighbourhood coffee shops - arguing the event's success.

Pro-government newspapers splashed pictures and articles on how the demonstration failed in its quest to sow chaos on the streets of Kuala Lumpur, with Prime Minister Najib Abdul Razak (right) and senior ministers claiming victory over what they call an illegal rally.

The rally organisers conversely declared the event a success, claiming a 50,000-strong turnout, in stark contrast to police estimates of around 6,000 people.

Bersih 2.0 chief Ambiga Sreenevasan even stated that the rally has helped Malaysians realise that the country needs a "sophisticated democratic process".

But has the rally really achieved something greater than intended - as claimed by its proponents - or did it end up being a dud, as hoped by its opponents?

Political analyst Ong Kian Ming thinks yesterday's rally would only bring limited political impact, largely due to the lower level of alleged violence that protesters endured compared to previous mass demonstrations.

He pointed out that unlike past rallies when political awareness wasjust budding, it would take something more "impactful" to dislodge more votes from the ruling BN coalition.

"... even though (the turnout was good) in terms of numbers, (and that) there were a number of people arrested, but the level of violence was relatively low. People will easily forget what has transpired," he said when contacted.

"It will only affect the people in the Klang Valley. By and large, the injuries are not serious, (there were) no permanent injuries, (so a swing in support) will not go down to the ground like Pakatan want."

More newcomers in the fray

Ong acknowledged that the rally did manage to draw a much better racial mix and more youths to participate, but remained sceptical of how much of difference that would make in terms of votes.

"From that (multi-racial and youth) perspective, it is more successful. It was multi-racial, more middle-class, and many of them were first-timers in a rally.

"There were also a lot of middle aged (people) in fact... but I think they didn't vote BN (the) last time, so (it's) not much different."

Another political analyst however stressed that it would be a mistake for the BN to assume the rally's impact would not be significant, regardless of whether or not the turnout was due to mobilisation of Pakatan supporters.

Khoo Kay Peng (right) pointed out that those who voted for the opposition in the last general elections in Peninsula Malaysia accounted for a little over 51 percent of the tally.

"The government should not think they are just a pinch of salt. Many of them are young voters and they translate to a significant vote," he said.

Khoo noted that a distinction must be made between Bersih 2.0, which is a movement seeking clean and fair elections, and Pakatan, which is a political entity, but agreed that the government's handling of yesterday's rally will lose it some support.

He particularly zoomed in on Najib's apparent flip-flop on his stadium offer, saying the onus is now on the prime minister and his administration to explain why he reneged on his promise to allow the rally to be held in a stadium.

"It will create a bad perception of the government. This will give some advantage to the opposition, but not necessarily in favour of Pakatan. There are a lot of issues in Pakatan," he said, without elaborating.

Govt ban only promoted rally

Merdeka Centre director Ibrahim Suffian meanwhile sees the rally as an international success, in no small part thanks to the government's concerted efforts to stop it from taking place.

"They (Bersih 2.0) are well known domestically and internationally. At the very least, the group or coalition is a lot more well known to a wider audience compared to two weeks ago," he said.

Ibrahim (right) however noted that this should not take away the fact that the movement had on its own built a strong enough following, judging from what he observed as a large number of rally newcomers.

He added that the rally has effectively shifted the focus from public service delivery reforms to much-needed democratic reforms in Malaysia.